When I quit my job, I knew I’d have to make some sacrifices.
It’s common wisdom, right?
Starting a business requires sacrifice.
And it’s true.
There are things I’ve had to give up.
For example…
My girlfriend is about to head to Venice for a few days…
Yesterday I was invited to a swanky restaurant…
And there was a stag do on last weekend.
If I still had a job, I’d be at all of these.
I’d have the cash and I know they’d be fun.
But this time round I’ve had to say no.
I need the money for other things.
And it’s a similar story looking forward.
I’ll probably have to skip a boys’ trip to Barcelona…
And a poker weekend in Prague.
And it sucks.
But let’s be honest…
Turning down a nice meal or a few days in a European city isn’t really a hardship.
They’re not an integral part of life.
What hurts the most is missing out on the chance to spend time with friends…
Sharing experiences and creating memories.
And this is the reason it feels hard to say no.
But you know what?
All sacrifices are relative.
Because here’s the thing…
I have more energy now than I ever used to…
I have more control of my time...
I feel healthier mentally…
And I’m happier.
See, I was sacrificing a lot in my old job too.
And these were real sacrifices.
Plus, it’s not like I’m missing out on everything.
I’m still taking trips, seeing friends and going for
meals.
It’s just a bit more low key.
So I guess my point here is this:
Whatever you decide to do at work…
Whether it’s trying for promotion, moving teams, changing career or quitting your job…
(or even if you decide to do nothing)
There are always benefits…
But there are always sacrifices too.
So then the question is – what are you not willing to sacrifice for your job?
I was sacrificing too much in my old job…
And even though I’m making sacrifices today…
These are the right sacrifices for me.
Maybe something to think about.
And with that being said…
I’m going to wrap this up.
Catch you tomorrow.
- Tom
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